MWG, sounds like he now has a bit of separation anxiety!
I'm so glad you are getting the opportunity for a restored M! More power to you! Hope you will come here from time to time, update us, and help the rest of us find a bit of hope!
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
Happy to hear things are going well...just wondering on you saying "if you are in close contact" be patient and kind...MWG mine H is in another state...to him we dont exist.....no calls.no texts,no emails....why does he hate me so much all I have been is to be kind to him...and yet there is NO contact at all what do I do? I trust your opinion and I would like just some thought on it.....again glad to hear you are doing fine.....God was and is with you for YOUR faithfulness and your obedience to him.....I give him all the glory..... I am sitting here crying for you and how God can move mountains when we wait on him, but it is hard at times to do that, but I will reread your threads....you are an inspiration to me...
MWG give GOD ALL THE GLORY! I am sure you have though from reading your thread. To me it doesn't matter, if you let GOD be in control everything will work out for the best. If we put it in GOD'S hands it will be good, regardless. IRMAC hang in there, trust in the LORD with all your might.
MWG, what if you are divorced and xh has no contact at all with you, and he is living with another woman. He contacts my son but not me. Though I have done the best thing and that is given it to GOD.
Congrats. Welcome to piecing. As you can see by my signature, it's about looking forward and I'm glad you get that. Anyhow, I don't like saying "div Busted" too soon, for obvious reasons. It's a long road and piecing has not been a breeze. Like Jack3B, (didn't everyone here know that his div was busted? He's in the "success side of things" and HE gives great advice...seriously...) anyway, We know these things take time. So, as you said -One day at a time. And good luck on the job front (or are you retired?) Job hunting can be a drag and a stressor.
How are the kids doing? I've found my d20 is having much more trouble on the forgiveness road than me, but then again, I've been working on it a lot longer. H knows he has some big repair work to do. Seems intent on doing it. Thank GOD.
I still find the DB coaching helpful for those things, btw.
Congrats! I'm not going to tell you to "be careful" b/c you already know how to protect your heart. Once you've been through something like this...imo, no one can ever hurt you that way again. You will be alright. Better than alright.
(And can I give a shout out to Holly and AttyTom?!! So this is where you old timers all have been!??!....catch up later!)
((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I have to ask, where do you live that a divorce can be filed in November and granted less than a month later, for a 20 year marriage with a kid?
remind me not to live there OR tell me you got a whole lot of money...geez..and yikes.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
