Listen Call Sara.. Take care of the boys and yourself.. I need to comment on this though.
"He said "just so you know im going out tomorrow night" I said what is that supposed to mean? (he never goes out) He said Im just telling you. I said "just remember your still married" He said what do you mean? I said its not a ticket to cheat? he said" is that what you think"... then he says im outta here."
YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING TO GIVE HIM PERMISSION TO CHEAT. If he does it was his own doing. You can not make him do anything. You have to realize that. You have no control over his actions only yours.
I was nervous about going on our week long Father and Son trip. I was thinking my wife will be all alone what if she calls him? What if she arranges to meet with Him? But then I thought that worrying about it will not change it. If she does... she does. I can not control her. What I do have control over is to see that my son and I have a great time. Nobody makes anybody do anything.. No matter what it always comes down to choice.
"He gets up, takes all the cash in the house, and leaves with my car. I go downstairs and the boys car seats are in the house with a note "sorry boys about the party, I'll see you soon' love daddy." What a nice guy. No matter what is going on between you two the boys come first. I can't beleave he would disappoint the boys like that. Make me want to slap him and ask "What were you thinking?"
"H: You don't care about me at all, you wanted to continue this stupid fight and haven't let up." WHAT????? Here he is trying to draw you in that it is your fault You don't Care about ME???? What about him caring about his family. A real man puts his family before all others.
Sorry I probably did not help much but I am getting real piZZesd off right now at this guy.
Got ta go
Take care lady and try to get those boys to communion
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Irish, I tried to send you an email to your---------------------, but it got bounced back.
You should still have mine if you want to correspond with me.
Hugs and blessings.
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I heard from Irish this morning, and he came home at about 5AM. Things were better this morning. I'm sure she'll update us later. But the crisis is past.
