Trusting, You handled the situation exactly the way you, as her mother, should do. I do hope that she's okay and I'm happy that she felt safe enough to speak to you about it. What in the heck is your xh thinking about?
I am keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
MLCer's really are off the deep end aren't they. As her father he should have been outraged about what happened to your D, not trying to downplay it. Thank God she told you about it before another incident could happen.
there is something wrong with my stupid email and i can't get it to reply or even send a new message. i will try again tomorrow.
no words - none that need to be posted on here.
i am your friend. i stand behind you - and i am with you in real deal prayer.
love you -- yes the real deal. i am connected to you in a wierd way.... God brought you into my life to show me strength. now it is my turn to be your friend.
your friend - real deal- cyber - and if ever i have the privelage face to face
cagzmom
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Trusting, I am so sorry to read of recent events in your life. However, I applaud you for being so strong it will not have been easy either for you or for your precious daughter. My thoughts are with you.
When you seek sole custody will you be doing it for your older children too? That is what I would be doing. As you say OWs 8yr old learnt this somewhere and I wouldn't want my D14 to be exposed to that anymore than I would a 5yr old.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Tristing, handling this situation exactly as a loving mother should. You have showed stregth and fortitude. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you face the enxt steps.
lalxx
Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011
I still can't believe the events that have happened.
Ex is clearly siding with OW and her child on this.
He has not called to check on my 5 year-old once.
He has called me evil for calling protective services.
I need to move forward and away from him as much as possible.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
trusting so sorry -- the pain of divorce seems to never end....how can they not see if the 8 year old wasnt in her life....this would not have happened...you havent posted much details....and thats fine...but it makes me sad for the 8 year old too....something going on there....so sad...why do they have to take sides..why cant everyone being on the kids side.....and i just think the 8 year old...how in the world would an 8 year old have anything like that going on....unless...its happened to them....very sad
