WAW and OM have been outed, what to expect next

[sweet-1]

Here's my thread in newcomers.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1731681&page=5#Post1731681

So the two of them have been outed, It started before we were separated and I knew it deep down, but couldn't prove or didn't want to. Anyway now that he's been outed, he has to choose between his common-law wife and his 2.2M resort in british columbia canada, or my wife (not yet divorced, separated 5 mos) with 2 kids, alot of debt and baggage.

She is very angry and lashing out tat someone she believes betrayed her (he didn't, and I respect him for it...a promise and all), and I am concerned what will happen next. Any7 guidelines/ My DR book arrived yesterday nd I'm already way into it.

lonnie

[sweet-1]

Got my first "I want you to stop contacting the people I know and work with email" today. The funny thing is it's her friends and coworkers talking to me. I think they're worried about the complete personality change. I sent a Facebook request to the OM's wife, nothing in it but a friend request, when I caugtht hem kissing on the street last week, no reply. He's in Alberta working, she's home in British Columbia tking care of their resort. Anyway my wife told her boss, she was flying to the coast to see her mother, and told her sister she was going to an entirely different town (over 7 hours away). She swears they are "just friends" yet the kids have never met him, she takes extreme pains to keep the family away from him, she's constantly lying, she's accused me of breaking into her vehicle (I haven't but I still own half of it), She is telling people that I will trash all the furniture she left in the house, etc etc. It's a good thing friends often drive 3 hours to pay cash for a hotel room. It's only been a week since the EA or PA was outed so I'm not too worried about the anger (except she CC'd her lawyer), but I know her family is coming down on her for this as well.