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Originally Posted By: Lord Grenville


My grandmother was, for many, many years, a LPN at Winter Haven hospital which overlooks Lake Martha. It is the hospital where my siblings and I all came into this world. It would be so wonderful if you ended caring for newborns and their families there!


Of course, I meant to type: it would be so wonderful if you ended UP caring for newborns and their families there (at Winter Haven hospital).

After I re-read what I wrote, I reflected on the fact that my mother gave birth to me at that location, going through the pain and wide range of emotions that accompany the arrival of a newborn.

And since I believe that a physical death on the earth is at the same time, a birth back into the world of spirit - - last August I was helping her birthing process, as she was reunited with her parents and second husband who were waiting to embrace her.


Me 46
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M 21 yrs

WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06
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Mediation finalized 08/08

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Wow, Trusting loved the post. You have such a great perspective. I needed to hear that today. Thank you!


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H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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emailed u


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D final 7/30/2008
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"I started a program to better screen women with post-partum depression "

This is so needed. If only I had recognized that it would be so hard for me....


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
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Breton,

Tell me what you mean. How are you doing?


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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I had postpartum depression. It lasted about a year. It was weird; when I finally started to feel better, it was as if a cloud had lifted. It sort of dissolved. However, C also told me I had PTSD because of H's lack of support when D was born.

Unfortunately, M problems were really getting bad when the depression finally went away. H moved out 2 months later.

I am better now, even with the M problems going on.


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I am sorry, you went through a lot. PPD requires a ton of support from significant others. I am sorry your H was not there for you.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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