My H and I have been separated (living in separate houses) since November. In the beginning we went out on dates often. That has pretty much stopped. We've seen each other re: household stuff (we are friendly to one another) but not for fun. My H is the one who moved out. Is it a bad idea to invite him out to dinner or for a drink?
Me:32 H:33 No Kids M 10.5 years T 12 years Separated 11/08
Why did the two of you stop going out on the dates? Was it because he started saying no? How frequent were the dates when they were happening and how long has it been since you went out on the last one? Unless he specifically broke them off, then I'd say it's okay to throw it out there. Maybe suggest getting together for a drink after work one night, or a Saturday morning coffee and see what he says. If he throws up roadblocks then back off and leave the ball in his court.
