TRAUMA/DRAMA...I NEED HELP FROM THE DALIA LAMA

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my H keeps saying that he doesn't feel like himself, doesn't know why he is making the decisions he does, what he wants or how he feels about us....he says he feels like it is a nightmare that he has gotten himself stuck in and the moment just keeps carrying on

not sure what this means??

[smiles76]

keeps saying he feels lost and unsure of himself

i guess he wants out but is just too scared to make the break

[smiles76]

Should I make the break...even though I don't want to D

I don't want to just get strung along. We stand to loose a lot financially with a divorce.

Plus he caome here to the house when he wants, eats here and then lives the life with his friends---no responsibilities

I manage the house, have the dog etc