So glad that you had a nice weekend. Sounds like you have a good attitude, and are able to carry it though. (That's the part that I struggle with right now, the carrying thru - sometimes it gets too much to carry!) I'm trying to follow your lead.
I love old Elvis movies. Such simpler times!
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
I understand Hope, there are a lot of uncertainities in all of this that is for sure. Don't know where I will end up, but where ever it may be, I will be OK!! I guess I have gained the confidence that I can make it with or without him.
Thanks Hope, some days like everyone are better than others. Yes there are times that he is his old self, others I know his mind is working overtime on things. It is nice to have him home.
Me I am OK. Still floating. Friday night wasn't the best H mixed some beer with Tequila and he was mad about something. Don't really know what, he took off for about 3 hours, left throwing gravel and spinning tires in his truck, but came back home. Still tension off and on, but I know he is still sorting through all kinds of stuff in his head, and that there is a lot more things to come.
Had a midterm paper due on Sunday, got it done! Yeah and got an 85%, so not complaining at all with that one!
Today we are 65 and tomorrow they are saying 80. I am sure there will be another cold snap before we are warm for good, but I am ready!
Girlfriend, buckle up and hang on. This is when the real tests start, lol. You have the right attitude, all of the stuff that he is processing is his stuff.. it isn't about you. He is going to have to work thru it all. It takes time and lots of loving patience on your part. The good thing is that you will find lots of good steps from him inbetween, but that also makes it hard to deal when suddenly they rocket backwards. Hmmm, H and I are still doing some of that. Not as much as a few months ago, but there is still some occasional "drama".
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Hey Hope, yes last night he was very emotional, couldn't find him when I first got home, he was sitting out drinking by the pond, hidden in the trees. I called him to find him. His head is not back yet, and I hope he can come back. He said he got mad because I was mad. I wasn't mad really, but he didn't see it that way. So yes, it is still very messed up in his head. I hope he can make it through.
I guess I have gained the confidence that I can make it with or without him.