I know what to do. Just need the support.

[noedphi]

Thanks Guys, it really means a lot. The new girlfriend came after everything was over and she came along by chance. was but was not looking. actually was running the other way. Lol

Right now the d papers have not been responded to. and all her crap is still here. I am packing here stuff as I can, and getting it stacked in the garage so she will be here as little as possible to pick it up.

I am only back here again cause I want to let the new people here know more. So to the newbies one more time. No matter what the out come, the process is LONG very very long. Get over it, move on, get a life, go dark, forget about her/him. or you will be in this hell much longer than you need to be.

I feel the out come is pretty much decided in the beginning. it is all about how long you stay in a haze. Once you are out of the haze and seeing things clearly you will be able to take a good long look at you sitch and tell what the outcome possibilities are. Just what I believe.

Now once you get to my point it is important to keep the changes going.
As gucci loafer says...
Stay the course... You will never want to go back to the old ways once the light comes on....


Everybody is going to tell you the same thing over and over listen NOW!!!!!!!!!

I would have gone nuts if it was not for this place and all the great people here. the ones that have been through it KNOW what they are talking about. Some saved it. some moved on to better things. But the outcome is always the same. finding happiness. and you cant do that by holding on to the past. ITS THE PAST!!! WAKE UP AND WORK ON THE FUTURE. If I can do it so can you. Just DO IT NOW!!