Last week I hit a low cause I found a letter that my husband was getting ready to mail to the o/w in jail which I can't understand why he would fall for someone with the record she has cause he tells everyone that I am the perfect wife. But anyway I decided to write the o/w myself and just let her know that he IS Married and having a midlife crises and I am not giving him up. So that might cause some trouble but I feel good and I joined jazzercise and I still run 2 to 3 miles a day . If any thing I am really getting fit. Maybe next year I will run the marathon.
I was actually contacted by the OW my H was having an EA with. She wanted to apologize to me because she didn't realize I wanted to save our marriage.....blah blah blah. I agree with you, contact her, let her know this is your terroritory and fight for it.