I had a marriage in name only with my husband. Left him three years ago.During this time I have not heard a single word from him. I see him at our daughter's house almost every weekend. He doesn't speak to me.
I just filed for a divorce . It has been three months since I did. He has not said a single word to me about it.
A couple of weeks ago I had to ask him for money . He came and gave me the money and also fixed my tire.I invited him into my apartment when he dropped off my car keys to have a sandwich . He told me that he had his car running and had to go.
I sometimes want to have the marriage work but, a majority of the time I don't .After all this time of being alone I have lost some feelings. And, I feel that he lost feelings for me while I was still with him.
This is a man that touched me every four years and, only because I asked for it. Between that time there was no show of affection not even a hug.
Sometimes when I think of going back to him I think about the times I spent all by myself. I just can't go back to that.
I wonder have any of you had your spouse cut theirselves off from you even though there was no one else? He isn't having an affair. At least not a physical one. And, I don't know of any emotional ones.
I am also torn because I am a God fearing woman. And, I feel guilty sometimes because I feel that I don't have grounds for a divorce since I am not aware of any adultery.
If you read all of my posts in last three years you may say that I am going around in circles.
hard to give any advice with out knowing more. I can't come close to telling you what your H might be thinking cause I can't understand how he can show nothing at all. Honestly if its been 3 years and you mostly don't want it I think it might be time to end it. but again I do not know all the details. Is am only going by what you have here.
I pray every day for a solution no matter what it will be. I know god loves me no matter what. And I am pretty sure he will not leave your side no matter what you choose.
My W just said it's over a couple days after a small fight. and there was no one else at that time. But after about a month she had her profile on some dating websites.
I don't know if any of this helps and I might not be the one to give any advice. I am a little confused in my sitch right now. But, What ever gods plan is I will accept as the best for me.
Me 41 W 44 Together 7 years Married 6 Bomb Dec 2 08
I prayed all the times and, I still do. I just don't pray for my marriage that much because it has been so long.
I don't know why I am still hanging on to him. I see him all the time at our daugthers house and, he doesn't speak to me. It is like I never was his wife. I have gotten used to it.
I just feel sometimes that I shouldn't divorce him because he hasn't been unfaithful. Sometimes I do wonder if he is just not interested in women.
He is living with an older man. This man is all he talks about. My daughter looks over at me when he starts speaking about this man. I don't say anything have gotten used to it.
It hurts doesn't it? When someone just turns there back on you.My husband has never been attentive anyway.I look back and can't remember any time when he acknowledged me as a wife.
I find myself still looking for answers as to why he is this way. Only he knows. I know I wasn't a perfect wife but, I tried.I filed for divorce three months ago . I haven't heard a word from him at all.I don't think it matters to him.
I have read both books from Ms. Davis. Have tried the different suggestions. I don't think he cares. I just went and checked out the divorce remedy book again. I thought why am I doing this? He just doesn't care.
God bless you. And, I pray that God restores your marriage.
There have been times when I have prayed for the Lord to just take me to the other end where he wants me to be. For he knows better than me.
