How do you get through this holiday if your tryring to detach, go dark, pull back or not chase?
What is everyone doing?
I made plans to take the whole family out to eat. The W told me she was going to get stuff for me tonight for VD day. Seems weird but now I feel I have to do something.
Me:45;W-47 Married 17 years this time Married in '82 for 3 years and divorced, both walked away. Re-married '91 D16 at home S15 at home (Special Needs) *************************** Wife EA June 08 Bomb August 08 Living in same house
Hi Twice, If you are trying to pull away and detach, you need to do something minimal, if at ALL, for her. Focus on your son and daughter and make this a special VD for THEM. You shouldn't get something just because she is getting something. You have to do what feels right. Others seem to be sticking to small gestures like cards - nothing super romantic. Good luck!
lemonsnap
Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09
