on feb 20 my wife of 20 years is planning to walk away again. she has told me she hates me because she doesn't love me
still waiting on her to go to court for dui on the 17
so until the 20th i am going dark only thing i can do and act as if it doesn't matter but it really does. she wanted the kids to go with her but they flat out told her no. i think she is going through a mid life crisis combined with drinking . she did leave me back in 08-2008 had an affair om is back with his wife but my wife still calls him off and on. been in the house sinse mid december but is just bidding her time untle she can move. income tax comes in on the 20th.
update: she did move out of the house with a girl she has been hanging around with. wants to come by tomorrow and see the kids before she leaves town on friday but she does have to see her probation officer on thursday first.
i have gone dark and when she called kept it short and wished her well but inside i am hurting. I did hear of her and her friend trying to carry a tune at a bar the same night she moved out. the kids are upset but what can i do when it doesn't matter what i do right now when nothing works with her.
