I felt a tingle and sure enough I find "smut", "poles" and T2 "having fun with the boys on her computer" (still trying to find out what website that one is).... And my perv-sense led me here.
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"
No thanking needed. I caught your title and had to check it out. Just remember, you are in charge of your life now and no one can take that control from you as long as you don't let them.
Not much new going on in my life right now. Stbx keeps calling and accusing me of harrassing his old OW. I finally got mean with him about it and told him to open his f***ing eyes. It is her making things up to get him to talk to her. He is ignoring her now that he has a new OW. I told him I was not playing those childish games anymore. For one, why would I harass her? She is out of the picture. If I was going to harass anyone it would be the new OW. I told him I didn't care what he does or who with, it is his business now, just leave me out of it. I also told him next time he calls me for something stupid I was hanging up the phone and to not ever call me again.
He is also getting restricted calls. Keeps asking me if that is me also. I keep telling him no. He knows who it is because our daughter snooped into his email and the old OW admitted to it. Of course I can't say I know that. I told him to get a new phone number and not give it to anyone. I told him I didn't even want it. Why can't he just leave me alone? I have moved on.
I am dating a wonderful guy and I want nothing to do with my stbx now. He will not ruin my relationship with this other guy. I won't let him.
Life is good and I want to keep it this way. I am finally focused on myself and my happiness. I won't let anything get in the way of that.
Life is good and I want to keep it this way. I am finally focused on myself and my happiness. I won't let anything get in the way of that.
I am sticking to the above. I won't let anything get in my way.
My stbx has officially told me he is picking the "ogre" over his own kids.
Seems for awhile I will be a full time single mom instead of like it has been. That is ok because my kids come first. I will not have to give up anything to do this either. I will learn to juggle things around.
I am hurting right now, not for me but for my girls. They are the ones who are getting the short end of the stick here.
I could really go on and on and call him every name in the book but I am not stooping to his level.
I am going to give my girls the love and support that they need. I WILL be there 100% for them.
