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#1714572 02/11/09 03:57 PM
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W is not contacting me much anymore. I am still in NC mode, did see her for a few minutes. she is still keeping a cool distance and possibly dating someone should I send something small card? something basis? or no...


Me 40
waw 39
Never formally M
Common law
SD 16
SS 13
Together 9 yrs
bomb 10/2/08
She started dating 11/08
Started P/A 01/09
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valentines I mean \:\)


Me 40
waw 39
Never formally M
Common law
SD 16
SS 13
Together 9 yrs
bomb 10/2/08
She started dating 11/08
Started P/A 01/09
Contiunes to call R over
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I wouldn't send anything.


Me - 45
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D - 17
S - 14
S - 13



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Paul,

Michelle says NO in her book. I was just reading through that particular chapter this am. Definately a "what not to do" while in LRT. She may be expecting something along those lines if it has been your pattern in the past. So a chance for a 180?

I have been struggling with this same issue and concluded it would be just more pressure. So I am not doing anything, except a card for my SD15.

Jeff


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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