I have been separated from my husband for three years. We had a marriage in name only. Throughout the last three years he has not called me once regarding relationship. I have filed for a divorce and, will go to court in March. A few weeks and ago I needed money and called him. He came and gave me money. Also, fixed a flat tire for me. I tried to talk to him a few days ago about some kind of closure. We got nowhere.He says that he loves me with the love of the Lord and, that he will help me when I need it. I appreciate that but, I want a husband and wife relationship which means intimacy. When I run into him at our daugthers house he directs his conversations to her. Like I am not in the room. But , when I call him he answers hi how are you doing. And, it seems like he is smiling at the other end. I have gotten used to being without him after all this time and want the divorce. But, sometimes I feel that maybe he is just not in his right mind. And, maybe I shouldn't go ahead with the divorce. But, I cannot run everything like in the past where he just went along with whatever I said then didn't follow up on it.
honey, it's been 3 years. You want something he is not willing to give you. The way he's been behaving with you is him being polite and keeping his distance, he is trying to be kind and you seem to be taking it the wrong way. He has not called you once, he's totally moved on, it's time you do the same, he isn't giving you a hint he wants back.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
