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I just read this article and thought it was interesting - I'd love to hear your ideas about it (and, HOW did I end up on this mailing list?!)

Donna, would you recognize a "good man"
if you saw one?

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Wow... I'll have to come back and read this more slowly!! Looks like an awesome read with tons of insight!

Right now I've got to meet my friends down at the local pub so we can hang out with a much younger crowd... ;\)


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Donna - When finding this place I googled and signed up for loads of stuff similar to this....it's called a ridiculous sales pitch. They all state the obvious and there is enough free info out there to know what you need to know.

FWIW, I'm sure I read one almost word for word but directed at men re women

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Oh, I know its a sales pitch, and that it can read for women, too. I didn't buy the thing! Just got me thinking...

I guess I am worried that I won't know. I mean, I was with my first (and only) for more than 20 years and was completely clueless. Hope I do better next time.

Think a new boyfriend would be freaked out if I asked him to have a session with my therapist before we got serious? ;\)

I remember a commercial not too long ago, of a bunch of women out at a bar. One of them brought Jerk Glasses (thinking about it, I think they made a music video like that, too!)

For right now, I'm happy doing the mom/friend/teacher thing.

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Interesting article, but it is as everyone says, a teaser using information freely available elsewhere.

How will you know? I like what he has said, "Find the Lord, and He will find your mate."

He is basically saying that if we just stop getting hung up on finding that perfect relationship with a prospective spouse and focus our energies instead on "building the Kingdom", then if it is in God's will to bring the right someone into our life, He will do so when the time is right for us and for them.

I believe this. I guess I intuitively know this to be so.

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