When the bubble bursts in our favor !

[Nutty Chick]

I cannot be ME with H being who he is now ....and after all I've been through, I do not want to revert back to who I was the last couple of years.

I like who I am now, I don't like who H is now.

I could have written that myself …

It’s a pretty sad realisation cos where do you go from here?

Do you continue to DB?

Confusing!

Nutty x

[Cinderellaman]

Well.............

I made the 'CLICK'

I am free now

Something snapped so much, that I let go like I never have before.

Kids told me that dad's new bath is big enough to fit all of them.

Yes...H, ow, AND my kids.

My H has no respect for anyone ! He has no boundaries, No principles.

I do not want to live with a man like that. It's best that ow has him.

I'm not sad, just very relieved.

I am happy and free and people have commented that my eyes are shining again and the sadness and pain has vanished !

I feel it down to my core.

It's my year. I'm going to live my life with flair !

Take care all of you, I hope you all reach this point of freedom, it's a wonderful place to have reached !

Love to you ALL ! xxx

[naej]

Hi Cinders--wow and double wow!!!!!!!!!!

I am raising my glass of(virtual)champagne to YOU and your new life. (It would be real bubbly cos you deserve the best but alas it is a school night)
Now go live that life that the good Lord intended for you.
Every blessing to you and your children.
They may be impressed by a large bath now but you wait one day they will be bowled over by what a truly great mom they have and how proud they are of her.

[Cinderellaman]

love you Naej !

And yes, I was out there living my life and felt a bit guilty leaving the boards for a while...but I think that in future I may be staying away more often ...you see, I feel like living again.

To all the wonderful friends I've made here, thank you. I won't be gone, but I won't be here as often anymore, I want to go and see the life I am going to have !

Love you all ! xxx

[mishka422]

AWESOME CINDERS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so happy for you. That click is enormous isn't it?

[Truelove]

Wow Cinders,
Great for you! Enjoy life as 2009 is YOUR year. It must be a great feeling to feel free. I wish I could be there. It must be so much easier.

Love to you. xxx

[ACJ]

Cinders congratulations. Like you I'm finding the urge to come here less and less. In fact on my way home from work today I realised I hadn't been here for a few days. In the past this website was virtually never off my computer. I do still intend to visit but the support mechanism that was so vital in the early days is not so vital now as I have learned from everyone here how to cope and most importantly that I am worthy of a good life with or without H.

[brandnewday]

((((((((hugs))))))))

[BaseballMyFanny]

Cinders, you sound fabulous...I am so happy and excited for you.

The world awaits, my dear...I can't stop smiling thinking about what's in store for you.

blessings,
BmfA

[TRUSTING]

I could not agree with you more......

It is time to fly.