Nothing new. Just wanted a place to keep the "fun" going...
Originally Posted By: hope3343
LIS, I have been reading your thread for awhile. It really touched me when you said about your kids confusion and tears when you told them. No one knows the emotional pain that our kids go through till you see their faces. I will NEVER forget the look of pain on my D15 face when my H sat her down and said I am moving out and will probably be getting a D from Mom. This is a great kid (like yours) that it took away the last of her childhood innocence. Since that time, D15 has been angry (one point did not talk to H for 5 weeks), gets migraines about 2x a week and has changed her whole outlook. I am doing my best but what she needs it her Dad back. Keep telling your kids that you love them and want to work on the M. Let them know you are not a quitter even though you are working on your M alone right now. I will keep your family in my prayers today.
hope, Thank you.I keep hearing from some to "present a united front". WHY? This is not a mutual decision. Plain, simple and the truth. I agree whole heartedly with you.
Originally Posted By: The #1 Puppy
Wait'll she gets your Answer & Counter-Petition!!!
Hang in there,
Puppy
Puppy, I have been here this long, no point packing it in now. Thank you for everything.
Originally Posted By: S&S
Oh that will be festive...
S&S, I am sure this is on everybody's list eh? Sheesh.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
I am ok. Work is hectic so really not much time for anything for "me". Thanks for checking in. I feel bad that I am not getting to others' threads as much these days. Take care.
Little update. Unfortunately, mil and fil had to cancel their trip in. Thought there may be some drama, but guess not there.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
As mentioned, had a major disc with IL's a couple weeks ago. Truth came out about A.
Last night, asked MIL if SIL's knew of A. She wasn't sure. I sent MIL a letter which I was going to use to expose (either send or call them). Thanks carp - used yours as a base. Today I get an e-m from MIL. They are sick about this all. Very upset. W going there for Christmas. Timing sucks but...
W went to visit my mom yesterday. W indicated to friends that mt mom understood. LIES but expected no diff.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
When a WAS says they have been inhappy 4ever! I jave read it is part of the fog. Is it common for them to tell that to anyone that will listen?
Of course they will! My W told our kids...I can't forgive dad for stuff...I don't love him...that's the PC fog kids version! People that don't agree...they cut off...people that do get elevated up the ladder.
No problem for letter!
I have read stuff my W says about me...how I am making this SO hard...no mention of the A though..
Last edited by carpenter54; 12/18/0811:57 PM.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
