(((T))) Thank you so much! The oven is quite a novel one, last year the heating broke down 3 times, one time it wouldn't go off, then the water blew - gosh all those things happening to one flat, I would say that is more than bad luck eh oh and another one was he hadn't eaten enough bananas so had low potassium! It used to really upset me but now I am so not bothered, he is the one missing out on my time.
I got two text messages from h today. One saying that he had driven up to his parents house and gone without his key (which he is giving to the agents) and driving straight to the house from his parents so could I get one cut. I was pissed but in the grand scheme it is an easy thing to do and it is not really a big deal for me to get another cut.
The other said that he had a phone call from the vets saying Maple hadn't had her injections; he was guessing I took her to another vet. Well, he knows she has had them because I told him several times so there was no need to text me. Yes, I took her to another vet. I haven't replied yet but I will now (it is 12.40am) to show GALing.
I went on a second date today with a nice guy. We went for a walk in countryside round here and then to a pub for some dinner. It was a really nice day. Tomorrow I am cleaning the house in preparation for seeing the agent on Monday. I think I will buy some fresh flowers to make it look extra nice. I will also take myself off to London for a Bikram yoga session again. I went on Friday evening and it was so good for de-stressing after the week!
Whats going on!??? You've had more text messages and contact from him since Christmas than you have the past 6 months, you arent sure how you feel about him anymore and you are now dating !?? Is it another case of...LBS gives up, moves on, finds there are other possibilities out there and THEN the WAS starts to sit up and take notice!? Or just him being nice now you are selling the house, who knows.
So.. whats the man like? Did it feel wierd dating after being with your H.. and... the $64million dollar question... did you snog him ?? hehehee
So, well done on not replying straight away, you could even leave it a day or two hey, unless you have replied already, in which case, what did you say? Al xxx
I know, we wished each other a good weekend too and had an instant email exchange to sort out arrangements for Monday before I left work on Friday. I signed off first for GALing reasons so I was mysterious
I am just cleaning the house before the estate agents come tomorrow and I have just bagged up all of h's clothes (folded nicely). I realised I have been squeezing all my clothes into half a wardrobe for over a year and he still has the other half. I need the room!!! As he has his car with him tomorrow he can take them with him.
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Is it another case of...LBS gives up, moves on, finds there are other possibilities out there and THEN the WAS starts to sit up and take notice!? Or just him being nice now you are selling the house, who knows.
Who knows, I am just grateful it is no longer a battle to communicate and that he is being a little more friendly. The coldness was upsetting. I have zero expectations! Getting on with my picnic as Lisa would say and enjoying it. I have a hot outfit planned for tomorrow
It didn't feel weird at all dating, it was fun and really nice to get out in the country for a walk and see some winter sunlight. And... yes
Sorry I missed your call earlier- I was just calling yesterday as I was in Welwyn on the hunt for a red dress. I'm so glad you had a good time yesterday- did you eat any cockles?!
Well, the estate agent just came round and we signed the papers for them to market the house. It was back to guilty, can't look at me h again. He was quiet but we did still have some chat. He didn't rush to go on the plus side but didn't really hang around. I acted as if, but I'm afraid I wasn't overly warm - I just couldn't. But I was upbeat, business-like and friendly. H helped me put some stuff up in the loft and he took the clothes I had packed up for him. On the plus side he had just spent a long weekend at his parents and there was no sign of ow with him. She wouldn't have fitted in the car as he had so much stuff in it.
We still got in quite a lot of chat on the plus side. Who knows what is going on in his head - I'm not even going there!
I am a bit gutted though, I'm losing my dreams in this house. Well, those particular ones anyway. I shall just have to try and replace them with better ones.
No matter how prepared you were for it in your mind, the reality is always a little worse.
You just summed it up completely Michelle, thank you. You just made me feel a bit better. Even though I had prepared myself it was still hard and I feel weird. I wish I could cry but they are stuck tears again!
The oven is quite a novel one, last year the heating broke down 3 times, one time it wouldn't go off, then the water blew - gosh all those things happening to one flat, I would say that is more than bad luck eh 
oh and another one was he hadn't eaten enough bananas so had low potassium! It used to really upset me but now I am so not bothered, he is the one missing out on my time.