Just think of all the chit you LEARNED. It will serve you well.
Personally, if things didn't work out with the fetching Mrs. Puppy, I feel VERY well prepared for my next relationship, but I probably wouldn't MARRY. I've soured on the legal ramnifications of it for men.
Just think of all the chit you LEARNED. It will serve you well.
Personally, if things didn't work out with the fetching Mrs. Puppy, I feel VERY well prepared for my next relationship, but I probably wouldn't MARRY. I've soured on the legal ramnifications of it for men.
Move to Texas!
No alimony and pre-nups are bulletproof. Don't like it? You can dump/get dumped in 62 days whether they like it or not.
I'll show you around.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
Just think of all the chit you LEARNED. It will serve you well.
While I totally agree with you on this one, I totally understand what Superstar means. I swear, I was so naive, could not (some days still cannot) believe my husband cheated on me. I don't feel that I am forever tainted but I do feel a part of me is changed forever.
When I asked my C the same thing this is the analogy that she used.
Trust issues are little things that lead to you trusting the bigger things. They tell you they will be home at 5. They get home at 5 - trust circle complete. You get a bunch of these little trust circles built up and eventually the bigger ones will show up too. Trust circles that's what we are working on here. So far, they always circle back around. So with that said, I am trusting what I am seeing from H.
That said I can never say "that won't happen to us".
She said however, your radar will always be more intuned then previously.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
I'm with all of you... I really wake up and can NOT believe my H has been so selfish and has left me for another women (or girl) :-) affairs I get, not right, but get how they can happen but to allow yourself to fall for them, give your heart, leave your kids, it is amazing...
But like what sandycay said... I guess when we do meet another the little trust can grow to the big trust... but I will never 100% trust another man again and probably shouldn't ... should always be aware and make my marriage the best it can be everyday....
SS - do you want to try to find me on facebook so we can chat offline or since we live so close I could leave info somewhere and you could pick it up.. either way hope you are ok...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
