OH HELL NO h just emailed me asking me why i wanted her to email me! seriously! we have fought about my personal email addy and it being protected for so long. i should have slapped her last nite, and no i didnt even respond.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
BG just wanted to step in see how my peeps are. You have had alot going on in ur life, it seems to overwhelm us, take some u time, a day or so, take a break from everything, maybe even from here. You need to give urself a mental break, ur thoughts and feeling will come back to you. You will find the way for you, what is right for you. Just do this, it will help. You are strong but u need a break, even if it just for a day. I promise you it will help. Just a little of my POV. By the way keep the cold up there since u have the wood stove. lol Take today and just smile and be happy for urself. Will check on u soon to see if u did this. lol :-)
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
why would she spin it like this? i would never give out my personal email to her, she admitted how she got it, yet tells H its my fault? should i fwd it to H so he can see?
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Hi, BG! I just wanted to pop in and offer some support.
You're doing a great job. As for the OW, I totally agree that she should not be dignified with a response. She definitely has ulterior motives, and regardless of whatever they are, they are beneath you and not your concern.
I wouldn't forward to B, unless you think it is going to do some good. Gather your evidence and give it all to him at some point in time, maybe. Tom hit the nail on the head with the bank robbery thing. Her apology isn't sincere, it is just her way of wanting to release her guilt as Puppy says. If it were sincere, your H would be out of her life. Just be careful. She got your e-mail by looking through H's computer? Did he know this? If not, then that shows her devious side. I'm going to be away for the day. Have a good weekend. Stay warm!
LE
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M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
We can communicate this way if you prefer or you can call me anytime. I haven’t talked to him yet today so I’m not sure what the status of everything is from last night.
I read this as she is trying to test the waters to see if you told him and see if he is pissed at her for telling you what she did. She is trying to play both of you. She may also testing you to see if she has your trust i.e. you not telling your H about the convo like she asked. You don't need to contact her about anything. This is between your H and you. Your H however, in your presence(he can do this over the phone) needs to tell her the only contact you both need from her is regarding the well being of S. That's it, that's all that needs to be.
I would like to say I am so sorry. I’m sorry for the pain I caused you over the last 3 years. I’m sorry for letting it go on for so long. I’m sorry for being so stupid.
BS she's sorry it's over for her
It’s going to take me a lot of time to get used to the new status quo. I haven’t felt like this in a really, really long time. I’m just not sure what’s going to happen next.
Welcome to our world Biatch. Does she seriously think she can envoke sympathy from you?
She sounds like a woman groping from straws and I think you should take some comfort in that fact that she sounds that desperate because it shows that she knows your H is very serious.
FWIW - my H was also told that she would allow him to come home and live with us like a family and still see her on the side. Shows the sick desperation they have and lack of morals. The way I figured it was if she really had loved him like she told him she wouldn't have stood for that for one second (like I didn't)and in the end I really think that he lost all respect for her at that point. I know it made me very nervous too knowing that she's always out there circling like a shark but guess what. It's not attractive to be needy and whiny. So let her do all that and become very unattractive to him
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M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
I don't know what happened but here's the rest of the story!
She sounds like a woman groping from straws and I think you should take some comfort in that fact that she sounds that desperate because it shows that she knows your H is very serious.
FWIW - my H was also told that she would allow him to come home and live with us like a family and still see her on the side. Shows the sick desperation they have and lack of morals. The way I figured it was if she really had loved him like she told him she wouldn't have stood for that for one second (like I didn't)and in the end I really think that he lost all respect for her at that point. I know it made me very nervous too knowing that she's always out there circling like a shark but guess what. It's not attractive to be needy and whiny. So let her do all that and become very unattractive to him [/quote]
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
