I'll be honest and say that finding silver linings in dark clouds was by far the hardest thing I've done during this whole DB'ing process. You've seen me go through really "low" lows, traversed to I-Don't-Give-A-***k Land, and now I'm settling to "I just want to be happy in my own skin again" mentality.
In the end, you and I have so much life to live (and your son), that we have to look and move forward...preferably with our respective wives, but be a "whole" enough person to be happy without. I guess I'm at the point where I just don't feel the pressure any more, and I hope you achieve that Zen-like state as well.
Man, compared to when you first came on the boards, you are in a much MUCH better place, and it looks like you're really starting to detach. I hope from this point on you really start taking better care of yourself and do more things that bring a smile to your face.
Keep it up, bro! Your W's current dream-like state will turn into a nightmare soon enough. You just need to keep yourself busy and happy until it comes crashing down. You know what they say - don't wake a sleepwalker!
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
