On Friday's we always go out to dinner. Last night was no exception. It almost seemed like a normal Friday night. The only difference is we went to seperate bedrooms when we turned in. It seems like we are just in a holding pattern.
Yes, she says no contact though we have not talked about it for a week. I have no idea. She is being very careful. She can only see anyone during the day. She does not go out at night.
She went out today to the mall. Of cource my radar went up but I did not say anything. She called about an hour later and my D7 and I met her. As usual we spent the rest of the day together.
She does not talk much even though I try my best engage her in conversation. She seems depressed...nothing makes her smile.
Yes, if she is depressed, this is good. It means she is going through with the no contact and is going through withdrawal. She "misses" what she got from them.
Keep showing her love. Ask about the MC again. This is no time to be stubborn and "see if she does it on her own". She needs your help.
Just spoke to her. She is going to MC on Wednesday. I asked her why she shut down yesterday. She said I was so up that she got scared that I thought everything was ok. I told her no that I wanted us to have a good day for D7...also that I was worried about D7.
I asked her to try and communicate with me when she thinks something is wrong...I said it as gently as possible. This is probably the key issue in our M...she can't talk to me or anyone.
