Ok, Guys, I'm looking for some advice here, as well as needing to vent.
My exH left me a voice mail yesterday (I didn't hear it until this evening). He wants the children on Thanksgiving. According to our Custody Order, I get the kids Thanksgiving Day; he gets them the day after Thanksgiving.
I sent him an email this evening telling him that I was following the Custody Order for Thanksgiving.
He called after he read the email and told me that either I let him pick the kids up Wednesday evening and keep them until Thanksgiving evening or he is calling Child Services on me. When I asked him what for, he would not answer me. In fact, after he repeated himself again and I asked him why again and he hung up on me.
So, my question is...how do you "deal" w/ someone like this?
I would contact your L; ask her if putting it in writing with a copy to him would be a good idea (your contact with her, that is). You might even want to call Child Services yourself, before has a chance to, to give them the heads-up that he plans on filing a false report on you.
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with someone like that, who is obviously so angry...
The thing that bothers me about all this is what it would be putting the kids through if he did call Child Services. He NEVER stops to think about the affect his actions have on the children. I have spoken to someone who has a family member that had false claims made against them. Once allegations have been made, they have to be investigated.
I have NOT done anything to be worried/concerned about. It just ticks me off that he would even threaten me like that. He's such an a$$....always has been...always will be.
Like Bill and so many others have said, he is used to having his way. And when he doesn't get his way, he resorts to bullying.
Ya'll told me pretty much the same things my friends here at home have told me.
I have sent my lawyer an email telling him about the threat exH made. I had also sent him a copy of the email that I had sent exH telling him that I would be following the custody order during Thanksgiving.
I will give my lawyer a call tomorrow...hopefully, he will be able to tell me how to handle this.
I also have a friend (a former pastor) who works for Child Services. I have put a call into him; but, I have yet to hear from him.
Again, I have done nothing wrong. I just don't like to be "bullied" or threatened where my kids are concerned.
