are the things that your wife is complaining about the same things she has always complained about? not doing your part of housework? not helping with the kids? not being able to support the family? it sounds like she has been put under tremendous pressure by you, to the point that she feels like a single parent doing everything.
if some of that rings true, i would immediately concentrate on finding a job to help the family financially. i would immediately start helping around the house and with the kids. but only do it if you are doing it because you love your wife and you understand that is what she wants from you. don't expect anything in return. just do the things that she has been complaining about without having being told and be happy doing it because you know it makes your wife happy.
I have been helping around the house for over a month now. I do all the household stuff. Not to win her back but because they need to get done. It is a part of my day now. Even when I get a job I will still continue to do so, not to win he back but because I need to for our family. That has been a part of finding a better me.
malibuman I am still with you on all of this going through the same things only longer. See a lot of things others have said and relive them. I think my W is making a little progress but trying not to read to much into it. Just try to hang in there for I am with you for the long haul. After 20yrs together I am not about to give up!! Tho sometimes(like today) I just want to walk away and forget everything. How is the weight loss I have dropped 35 lbs and still hitting the gym. Stay tuff!!
Nothing is lost if one person is willing to fight for it!
A man who never quits is never defeated! And I am not a quitter!
