Hey gang - don't know how many of you remember me from a few months back, but I just thought I'd pop in to say hello.
My wife and I are doing very, very well. We are not looking back, we are moving forward. It is amazing how incredibly focused on our relationship she has become, since coming out of her 'fog'. We are communicating, we are spending time both together and alone with friends, we are keeping active, and we are ML at least once (but usually twice) a week!
It's amazing how far we have come. I was in the same place as many of you just 6 months ago. However, I made permanent changes and so did she. Our time apart actually helped us gain clarity on who we were and who we wanted to be. We are now authentic to each other, and more importantly, to ourselves.
Good luck to all of you, and I hope you can achieve as much happiness and satisfaction as I have.
I couldn't have done it without you.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
I followed your story and found it gave me hope for my own situation....my H and I are back under one roof, but not at the wonderful place you and your wife seem to be. I am so very happy for you.....
Thank you, ladies. It's nice knowing that I may have helped just a little bit.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
