Being new and alone, while my husband is going through his mid d-life crisis, I would like to hear from the men who also walked in my husband's shoes. I would like to know what was going through your mind during this crisis and what was it that made you realize...your wife was truly the love of your life all along. What was it that made you realize you made a huge mistake..thinking you would be happier somewhere or with someone else? Knowing I can't control my husband's thoughts and I have taken a back seat to our marriage when I know we should be sitting together...being men..perhaps your experiences can shed a little light to all of the wives here, including me who are praying our husbands find us too. I understand everyone has different experiences and nothing is soundproof. However, men and women do think differently...and if the men here could share what the tunnel experience was like for them...only to be happy their wife was waiting for you at the other end....what was it? Those of you whose wives did a 180 with hopes of surviving the marriage...did you feel your wives moved on and now no longer needs you which in turned bothered you, or did it make you realize what you were willing to risk losing? I'm not looking for promises that mine will find me again...but I am looking for some hope.
Although still early for me....and non existent to him......I love this man dearly and miss him so much. I just wonder if he knows that even if I can't tell him.
Thanks in advance for any hope you can share,
MrsJJJ Me: 44 H: 44 Married: 7 years Bomb: 7-25-08 Abandoned: 08-04-08 OW: Est. Jan 08; age 47/48 My kids / his step-kids H excellent Dad / Kids miss him S -22 D -20 D -15 Summons filed: 8-8-08 I do not want divorce H to be served Nov, 08 for financial support
Hi MrsJJJ- There aren't too many former MLCer's that currently post on this board. There have been a couple in recent past that I know of...Happy_Again and Favoriteweirdo.
Here are some links from Happy_Again's posts that really helped me...
