Hey Kalni, I am glad you got to spend time with him and you feel more clear now of trying at least..your mission! I'm not sure why he went home, maybe he didnt want to overstep the mark with you (as you said no to kisses and physical contact) or make you feel uncomfortable? Or yes, maybe he went to watch football. I guess the only way of knowing is to outright ask him and you may as well, seeing as he is more open now with you. thats great news about the phone and him having the love back in his voice, I dont know about you, but I am thrilled for you.
Oh and ps.. your H has a 10th house sun.. so work is his reason d'etre. No escaping that one. Hopefully he will do just 1 job though instead of 2 eventually!?
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I sounds like both of you are doing a "careful" dance! At least he realizes he is doing it. I think that he thinks that you want him to hold back. He's following your example, to an extent. I have to think a bit about how to encourage him to change that!
It is good that he is telling you how he thinks and feels. I'm not sure exactly what to offer for you except to just let him know what you'd like to see.
Also, let him know that it will take time, but you need to see some passion from him and he needs to try and woo you all over again.
So, I guess I did have something to say after all, right?
