A year after deciding to leave, My W decided to come back. Of course I had to ask one last time for another chance to work on the M. She took four days to decide and then said okay. She said she wanted to take it slow. Inside I was screaming, but outside I played it cool and said great. That was a month and a half ago.

When she moved back in(she still has her place an hour and half away), she sleeps in my S7 room with him. Since she has been here, we have not touched. No hugs, kisses, or ML. No touching at all. She goes into the bathroom for showers fully dressed and comes out fully dressed.

I do not want to pressure her, but I would like to bring this to her attention. I am happy she is back, but I feel we have to move forward. How long should I wait before approaching the subject? Should I approach it at all? I think we should start sleeping in the same bed again. I think we should hug before we leave the house in the mornings.

What should I do? Just let her deal with it on her own time or should I talk to her about it?

Thanks.