I've Come Full Circle 20

[Lyn]

Hi Kat, thought I would drop by and say thanks so much for your feedback. I really hate that any of us are going this. I saw on a previous post someone thought our H's should stand up and be decent men. Guess not. I know mine's not anyway. It is a nice fantasy though. I hope you find a big wonderful hunk of a man and then please tell his brother to call me :-)

[yenko69]

I have a few friends that are cops that have offered to persuade him to own up and be a man but I don't know if even that would help.

Add one to the list.

We got mixed up in this mess when trying to buy a house. W's exh did not pay a lot of bills he was supposed to. We ended up having to settle to pay part of the bills to get my W's name off of them. They left his name on for the rest of the amount. He and your H must be in the same club.

Hang in there. I will try and get a hold of you sometime.

[kat727]

Come on down!! He knows our other friends that are cops. They just can't believe what an irresponsible azz he has become. I think he needs to be scared...and I don't mean just a little.

kat

[kat727]

I am not in a rush. I have a mess on my hands and it wouldn't be fair to ask someone into this. The guy I am interested in has some of his own issues, maybe we can get our timing right this time.

So I stick around and work on friendship. Hopefully it will bloom into more after we have put the time in.

kat

[Sugar and Spice]

((((Kat)))) so sorry this chit isn't getting any better right now. You just have to look out for you and the kids and do whats best for you guys. Your H isn't acting in ANYONE'S best interest, least of all yours, so you just take care of you.

Wish there was some better advice I could give you, but for now just know your in my prayers.