I've been gone so long ,and when I left things were looking so positive for you guys. I'm so sorry to see that obviously some things have changed for you guys. I'll try to catch up on your sitch. Please hang in there. I think it sounds like a good thing that you are just focussing on yourself for now. Being in that limbo land for so long is just really tough.
Take care of yourself.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
Just catching up. I'm sorry you are still feeling at a loss about all of this. Hold onto your faith sweetie and everything will be just fine. All in His time.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Hi Guys...I am okay. Not really much going on. Had brief contact w/ H at the beginning of the week because I broke yet again another cell phone and had to order yet again another new one, lol me and cell phones!!! But otherwise, that was really it. Interestingly, as I was going to get off the phone, H said wait you want to hear something funny? And proceeded to launch into a story about his mortgage. I am not sure what was funny about it, but it was obvious to me he does miss me a little. That is nice. But I am keeping myself busy so I don't think about it toooo much (hehe just a little....) I still miss him, and there are days I still cry, but for the most part I am doing okay. Not talking to him means I can't let my mouth get in the way anymore!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I've been gone so long ,and when I left things were looking so positive for you guys. I'm so sorry to see that obviously some things have changed for you guys. I'll try to catch up on your sitch. Please hang in there. I think it sounds like a good thing that you are just focussing on yourself for now. Being in that limbo land for so long is just really tough.
Take care of yourself.
Chris
It was going well, and then he flaked out on me again. It was right when I got my car back, and somehow I think the fact that I wouldn't "need" him anymore really had an affect on him, and he said the D word again.
Of course, Mr. I want a Divorce still hasn't filed.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
So, I just tried to go into this MLC site to get some insight. They have a chat room.
Damn those are a bunch of angry people! They are so anti-marriage. When I tried to express a little that I still loved my H, they jumped all over me and said I was fooling myself, it was unrequitted love and that if he did come back I would try and spend my life making him miserable for hurting me. They wanted to know why I just didn't file for the divorce and move on with my life. Don't people believe in trying to save a marriage anymore? I have to tell you, this really bugged the crap out of me. I realize that things between my H and I are dark right now, but that doesn't change the way I feel at all.
I think I am staying away from chat rooms.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
