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Locked another one...who better than my buddy Woog to do it with a "set them free".

I met W this morning at another bank to close some joint accounts. W pulled a sh!t fit with the bank manager (for no reason in my opinion) and I just started laughing. It was strange because she starting laughing also....after realizing she was overreacting. We went to grab a bite afterwards and had some nice conversation. A couple of weird moments when i told W that I took D7 to an open house / private school. It is for next year so one never knows. She simply said that she could not live without D7 during the week. I asked if she had taken care of the house (put it on the market). She said she would but has not yet and apologized. She then said she wished she could keep it. I could not help but tell her you had the house of your dreams but you needed some excitement in your life and i was too boring......she quickly changed subject.
All in all a nice exchange with a few laughs and some starnge looks from W. She was checking me out more than normal I thought. As usual i was very complimentary on her looks...not to win her back but I was being nice. I have to admit that I was looking straight into her eyes and at times stopped listening. Double cheek kiss followed by a small peck on the lips....she even noticed I was wearing some (very very little) of her favourite cologne.
That is all for now....she may not be over the other guy but she is not over me either.

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Good for you, John. Keep it up. I LOVE it that you laughed when she went into a tizzy. I haven't tried that yet, but I do keep a smooth demeanor when he freaks and that weirds him out...

No business trip for H this week, so Canada is safe... ;\)

I still find it interesting that you would even receive a peck on the lips if you guys are getting a D. Maybe it is a French/Italian/Canadian thing...

Thanks for making me smile with your story


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Good Morning John,
it seems you are DBing again? Before you deny it, I want to say GOOD for you and your D and your W that you are not giving up. You are just letting go...
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Good morning....

I will not deny it....I do not think I am doing this consciously or have any expectations. In the past the DBing really took on a life of it's own. It was always on my mind. Maybe what i am experiencing now is the real DB, without any urgency or quite honestly a real idea of what it is that i want as an outcome. It is obvious W is not out of my system...I am still in hers as well....I can tell (maybe to a lesser extent who knows). On the one hand, I am convinced that she is not the person I should be living the rest of my life with and on the other hand, I find her attractive....even when she gets mad for no reason. Maybe I am letting go...maybe this is where the real DBing begins...I know one thing for sure...after the anger of the "confirmation", I am much more relaxed and happy around her....but strangely i don't really feel like i am acting as if....does any of this make sense?

BBJ, I kind of initiated the peck on the lips....yes we are heading towards a D but like i stated earlier I am at a strange place. It does not really bother me that we are headed towards a D. To me it is just legal. No paper can erase emotions....
By the way, I am happy to put a smile on your face once in a while.

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Oh John..

How strange that surprising things happen when you least expect it. How beautiful.

I don't think I've laughed so hard during the vacuum dressing ensemble posts. With that in mind consider this for your possible shopping list.

My apologies in advance!

*hugs*

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I'm not coming back here anymore if I have to think of John in heels and women's underwear.

I can't take the emotional distress the image causes



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John,
I have been posting. I was waiting for your pictures to comment on your... heels but it seems you gave up that plan...
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I posted a couple of pictures on FB (no high heels or underwear) with D7..Maybe 20 years ago I could have gotten away with it...today sadly....I have to agree with the boys who have strongly suggested that i remain decent.

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Will you have D this weekend? Any fun plans other than stogie-smoking??


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I have D from 4 this afternoon to Saturday night. W has some outing on Sunday with D7. Suits me fine i will play golf and smoke some stogies on Sunday (pretty boring). I do not have anyhthing special planeed for D7...we usually paly it by ear. i just want to spend some quality time...maybe look over her school work ....read a little watch a little Tv tonight. I will probably take her ice skating (indoor rink) on Saturday.
I missed her this week....more than usual.

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