Let the games begin!

[lovelyolive]

I see my last thread locked up. My big questions is - has anyone else gone through a custody evaluation? What's it like? I may have to go through one soon.

We are supposed to conference with our two L's in the next week or so. My L doesn't know what it's all about yet so I am a nervous wreck.. The only question mark is custody. If only stbx would come to his senses and see things my way

[Reincarnated]

Mike's Ice Tea, please. I need to get out of my head a bit ;0)

Sounds like you do, too......

[lovelyolive]

Aaahhh.. yes, Donna, I do need to get out of my head! Cheers!

[BethM]

Olive,

Don't worry. It's a ploy. You sound like a great Mom and there is noway a judge is going to hand you daughter over to him fulltime.. I had 2 friends that went through this. In both cases it was bull and never went anywhere. He's just angry angry man and for your daughters sake I hope someday he understands this.

My neighbor is a great guy and father. His spouse did the samething. We all wrote letters and he went in there being able to refute all her outlandish charges. The bottom line was that I don't even know that they were needed. Whoever did the evaluation had it all figured out before they went to court. These people see this stuff everyday and they know what's what.

They don't necessarily even have to have charges here. All a lawyer has to do is request it and cough up the money.

Take care Sweetie!

Love,
Bethie

[fig]

Olive
my freind went through the same thing and just like Bethie said
the judge saw through their plys

it was all bunk

(of course they were both lying so...blech...what a mess)

and

i have to say when i see your name i smile
to not embarass my two growing boys i will sometimes say
olive juice
because it sounds like i love you
but they can pass it off as their mom is a nutjob (which somehow is more preferable to my mom loves me)

[lovelyolive]

Thanks ladies...

Bethie - He actually wants 50/50. I want soemthing more like 80/20 since he is living with a woman with no morals. My L says I have an excellent case. It still makes me sick to my stomach, though..

fig - olive juice.. I like that!

[fightingirish]

(((((ol)))) You have NOTHING to worry about. Your a great mom, and they will see right through there bull doo doo.

[lovelyolive]

Thanks tal.. I like to think I'm a pretty good Mom

Next question of the day.. Why do these men still try/want to have sex with us?

[LL44]

I don't know, but my husband does it daily. Hourly sometimes. I find it annoying now (used to LOVE it when he wanted me), and completely ignore him.

Wonder what your H's OW would think about that, by the way....

You are a good mom. You have nothing to worry about, my friend.

[lovelyolive]

Wonder what your H's OW would think about that, by the way....

Ooooo... I was so tempted to answer his cell this morning when it rang bright and early and let her know that her "boyfriend" is hitting on me! haha!

Worry worry worry.. That's my middle name. Big pow wow is tomorrow. I'm just gonna dig my heels in and not budge. I will not accept my daughter being raised 50% of the time by THAT woman!