I'd say just "act as if", don't go go in there beaming and expect it to be the best news you will ever get, but at the same time, don't go in there expecting defeat. I does sound like good news but just don't set yourself up for heartache. And the bomb was the day we separated. We'd been shaky for a while before that though.
Ok, in my last thread I mentioned that W had someone in her backyard, and got into her car. Specifics before I confuse everyone. W and kids were home, W heard a noise, called BIL and mate, they checked the yard but there was nothing, next day W goes out to car, it is open but nothing has been taken. W calls and asks if it was me, no it wasn't.
Saturday Night, got text from W asking what I was doing, I was around at a friends house, I asked her what was up, W replies "don't worry about it", I reply "nah it's ok", nothing back.
Sunday, picked up kids bags for there week at my house. W told me that someone broke into her house, nothing was taken, they just walked through her house. I asked if she was ok, she said she was but she is home alone. I said "i know you will say no, but if you need anything you can give me a call", W didn't really respond, I left. I sent her a text to check if she was ok, she was. Sent another one later and didn't get one back, i paniced and drove to her house and sent another one asking her to text back and told her I was out the front. W was in bed, wasn't too happy about me waking her up, told her I paniced. W said, she wouldn't call me if something was wrong.
Sad again now, need advise or wisdom
t7-years m3-years Me:22 W:27 Wifes kids (love them like my own) D-10 D-7 Our Kids S-3
