That is what I am doing. The man that I married no longer exists and I needed to let go long ago but somehow I kept letting my self get pulled in. He was at my house on Friday morning confessing his love for me and trying to get some...
Since I last updated, there have been at least two court appearances where he either did not come with an attorney or like today came with no paperwork and no attorney.
The swine that he became showed up today at court.
The clerk called us in to chambers and basically tried to find out what was going on. She asked him if he still wanted a divorce to which he replied yes. She then asked why he had not submitted the financial data that is required to which he responded … “That has long term implications for me.”
Am I losing it or is this person’s head completely up his butt that he must take care of his children ?
The clerk looked at him like he had two heads. He then accused her of belittling him. He is a swine now. Sad, really, really sad.
I am sort of glad that this all happened. I got to see who he has become and to now feel okay about letting the chips fall where they may.
Save a spot for me on this curb. I will be here in a few weeks when he does not do what the courts told him to do today.
After the day that I had today, I will take a MIDORI SOUR ! Make it a double.
Midori sour sounds good!!! And, sounds like your really need it.
I'm sorry it has come to this for you. We've all been in your position at one time or another. Of course, he's stalling and like a lot of us here, you'll have to be the one to make it happen.
That is so funny, qoe. Why would he ever want to stall when he is the midlife crisis nut who started this?
When the clerk looked at him with her eyes sort of rolling, I almost laughed because you could tell that she could tell that he was MLC.
She was like,"Oh, I understand. You want to do this as simply and quickly as possible. Well, we have certain procedures that must be adhered to. So, we will let you get on with the business of getting on with your life as soon as possible."
He was so delusional that he did not even realize what was going on. Then he had the nerve to say, "Well, that is what I am trying to do. Get my divorce so that I can go on with my life."
I spoke then and raised my voice a bit to say, "You are not the only person involved here !" The clerk looked at me and put her lips to mouth like "shh".
She just knew it, she has seen it all before. Why take responsibility for yourself when everything can be everyone else's fault. So this will be just one more thing that he will file away in his cloudy brain as my fault. I would not settle. I was supposed to even though he never produced financial data. My lawyer said not to.
I'll chime in to say you are not alone. It took 4 years for my x to finish what he started and and his lawyer almost fired his client because of his neglect. Hang in there and take the high road, do every thing by the book, and help your lawyer. You will not regret it. Wonder
