If I hadn't expected SO much at the beginning, I think I'd be much further along than I am now!
I guess we all have to learn this the hard way...:)
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I asked xh if he was coming with me to pick up D at school at 1:30pm and he said he had to go to a company to pick up a manual at 11:00 am so he didn't know. I asked him if that would take 2 hours and then he said he'd have to eat lunch. The thing is that the wannabe GF has the manual so who do you think he's having lunch with arrrggg. The school is very close to the office building....2 or 2 1/2 hours to pick up a manual AND have lunch....life sucks and all I want to do is come out swinging!!!
Last edited by JenInVen; 09/22/0803:58 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
It's because she's very manipulative. In some of my threads I've mentioned things she's done so far. I had chosen to ignore her for a bit but sometimes I'd love to give her a good smack.
Last edited by JenInVen; 09/22/0804:10 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Of course you would..as I would love to smack some of H little "female friends" but that won't get you anywhere near your goal. Plus the sad thing is yr XH would get pissed at you no matter what she did to provoke it.
That being said relax, take a deep breath think about him whispering "te quiero" the other day and that those words will never come out of his mouth for her.
