After 22 years my wife dropped two big bombs on me the first is she had a affaier on me 13 years ago she did this on the phone while visiting her parents out of state and a few days later when she got back she told me she wanted out of the marriage to find herself. We started coulsoling but she soon dropped out and filed for devorce. i read the diveorce remity and now i am reading devorce busters i have tryed most of the suggested technices and feel that all i have left is the 180 apporch. I truly love my wife and refuse to give up till it is over everyone tells me to give it up and move on she told me she does not love me anymore. I am so glad that i found this site and am not alone in this this has givin me the strenth to carry on and try to save my marrage.
