I think the only person or people that do not know is his job.. he manages a trucking company....
He works directly with a salesman..I dont think he has shared with them.
I dont think he would let her demand again he not go to Chicago...I wont be there..she should have no reason...
He really is an idiot if he let her do that again...lol
My prediction wasn't based on her objecting to it, since you wouldn't be going this time and that's most likely what she objected to the last time. I just don't think he can face his family.
Will look for your thread. I will be honest and say I dont post alot..I cant even consistantly follow advice given to me ..let alone try and give to others.
Oh.... I really doubt that will be the case... he hounded me with dates to rebook his flight.
He is dying to see his family. (and they are dying to get their .02 with him) there will be some not so good conversations....
They will always love him, but cannot express the disappointment and shame they are feeling for his actions.
His mother feels he is being selfish and OW is NEVER welcome in her home.
This has caused so much pain and grief for so many... especially her grandchildren.. and she said I am the mother of her grandchildren... and she will always love me.
Everyone feels he should seek counseling. Ya never know..the pressure may make him look long and hard at his decisions.
I remember Michelle's words in Divorce Busting when she wrote that, if all else fails and all the efforts to save your marriage do not bear fruit, bear in mind that the fact you have tried so very, very hard speaks volumes about what kind of a person YOU are.
Despite my heartache I can see the truth in those words. I'm sure, if you let yourself, you could see that too.
Try to be strong and listen to Puppy Dog Tails and I will try to do exactly the same!! We're both in the same place. I know that. I empathise totally with you.
He IS a loser and here is why:
Your love is selfless, genuine and strong. It is the only love worth having... and he's playing with it. He is, catergorically, and without any question, a complete and total fool.
WE WHO LOVE NEED TO STOP BEING BULLIED!
Puppy: "I'll stand up next to a mountain... knock it down with the edge of my hand"
