Wow, SG....15 years! So, glad my youngest is almost 12...
Does that mean 8 more years of spew?
Enough is enough already!
I'm right there w/ you, Lissie!
Today I was a "Stupid B_ _ _ _h!"
But, like you....it is easier to let it roll now.
I, too, thought that after the D it would stop. Silly Me!
He is now married to his OW. He should have everything he wanted, right?
I have moved on w/ my life. I am married and very much in love w/ my new husband...so VERY blessed and thankful for a man who loves me. I do NOT bother him. I have no desire to even talk to him.
I just wish he would co-parent peacefully w/ me and that is all.
Wanted to let him know that he should expect that phrases like "stupid b$%ch" directed towards my wife will only fly as long as I am in Indiana and he is in NC.
She didn't think that was a good idea.
Somehow telling your wife that her ex is simply an unhappy man is not very satisfying after he has said something like that.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
Well for me the first M the spew lasted lets see 9 years after the D was final..then I moved away, changed all my cell /phone numbers..saw her at my son's wedding in July, we spoke. No spew.
since I'm a 2 timer and I'm in the middle of another D and I have a daughter that is 2 and if all goes as the first one went then I expect to receive spew for at least 16 more years. Throw D2's college time in there and that would make it an even 20 years..
Much less frequently though!