Has your husband filed for divorce?That tends to amp things up a bit.Tommorrow is my wifes birthday and Wednesday is our 20th anniverary.We are going to dinner with the kids for her birthday. I will be around town on our anniversay. Way to painful,I don' want to interact with my wife on that day.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
I sent flowers to my wife for her birthday today. I know someone is going to say, that is not the db way. Well, I am at the 11th hour in my marriage, divorce is only a few weeks ago. So I decided to try to make her birtday a little brighter.
Our 20th anniversary is tommorrow, I am not sure how I am going to feel about it. At first , my initial reaction was to just take off.But the weather is foggy and cold , so I just might stick around town.My wife was very thankful for the flowers, and the kids got her something also.
She did not mention d papers or our anniversary. I did not either.
I just read some of the comments from the veterans and the run in with sg, It seems to be turning into a pissing match.There are alot of hurting people that need the veterans and sg for any help.I have been on here almost a year, alot more argumenative than in the past.God wants peace, the evil one loves discord.
Last edited by craig54; 09/10/0804:38 AM.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
It seemed to brighten her day, and that was my purpose.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
That was a underlying thought.I am also being realistic.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
It is our 20th anniversary today, another day on the calendar.I thought I would have a hard time today. But I don't feel any different than yesterday.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
If I recall, Charlyne sent Bob cards, etc. for his birthday.
I see nothing wrong with what you did. You are sincere and kind and you showed that by sending her flowers.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Mixed emotions today, but I survived. Wife came over for a total of 3 minutes then left to attend a birthday party for someone from her work.
She had called awhile ago to say she was not going to come over, and I said ok.She said she showed up because I sounded mad. I said I was not mad. But after thinking about it considering the day, no matter what she would have said I would have been upset. It would have been better if I had not seen or heard from her today.
Tommmorrow is another day, the Lord is patient with me, and I thank him for that.I am glad this day is almost over!!
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
