Sorry Robert, mainly for the kids sake and the fact that the system is set up to assure that your wife can essentially mooch off of you until the kids are grown. I would have paid the child support money just to have my kids full time. I hope that you've worked out something by now...maybe you can have them 70% of the time or something.
I know how hard this is. It's so bad to have the kids go through this. I'm amazed that you have dealt with the emotions surrounding your wife, but perhaps you are keeping those at bay mainly with anger towards her. Hopefully you'll write and let us know how things are.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
Its very tough....as each day is a trial and tribulation. I have held off most of her attacks...but what scares me is her use of the Police. She calls them when she even has a feeling of emotion. I have done absolutely nothing yet I am immediately assumed guilty. Just the other day, all I wanted to do was kiss my kids goodnigh before they went away with her for the weekend.. and she freaked out. Police came--nothing happened.. but after 2 or three more calls...I get the boot.
She must be carefully as I will immediately suspended as an atty and then no money. Then possibly house sold and the downward spiral. Could she be that selfish???
Otherwise, back in court Monday. Her top lawyer is now getting involved and he could be intense. My lawyer is up to the challenge but it will be interesting.
My time with id this weekend.. Going to parent... Keep in touch.