I have a tread going on my sitch in the newcomers. Since my W is having an A, already filed for D & still living in same house, need some advice on how to proceed with dealing with my W. If you have time please drop by & give me your take on things.
Thanks in advance, K
Me/W 39/37 T/M 9/6 S 4, D 2 Bomb 7/17/08 OM confirmed 7/23/08 D Filed 7/25/08 D served 9/17/08
How do you look the other way and suppress the anger & hurt that your W is causing by having an A? I find it hard to manage this pain I feel when I see my wife touting her new relationship via her myspace page. She had a pic up with her holding our kids. For some dumb reason i just decided to check it & viola, there is a pic of her & the OM for all the world to see.
Now that I have calmed down & had a rational thought go through my head, I am wondering if she did that on purpose just to provoke me in case I did go visit her site. I already have had a copy of this pic for a couple weeks so not a surprise to me what he looks like but just stunned at the sheer audacity my wife is displaying behind my back.
Getting fed up feeling like a doormat. My wife is basically living off me right now, hardly contributing to paying the bills. Really feeling like it is time to get her to quitclaim on the deed & send her packing so she can get a taste of what life is like on her own. I know I failed in our marriage but I don't feel I deserve the payback I am receiving.
Me/W 39/37 T/M 9/6 S 4, D 2 Bomb 7/17/08 OM confirmed 7/23/08 D Filed 7/25/08 D served 9/17/08
I know exactly what your going thru, except we have been separated for 3 months, she changed her status from married to in a relationship. under hero's praises OM for accepting her for who she is. In photos it pics all of them together. None of the our kids. S15 and D17 all go to her my space. Talking about disresptfull. It just proves in front of our kids that she has no respect for me or the kids. It crushed me, i also had a pic of him before, but it killed me when i say all of those
Plus the link to his My space was worse, one pic "fun at the apartment" uck. He even has pics that she put on his from 3 years ago at our house, and my sons pic is on his also. Total disrespect. She changed the password, my advice never look at it again. Each time it will set you back. Im almost to your point, just hang in there and DONT LOOK AT IT AGAIN! Take care and good luck!
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
