Sometimes it helps us LBS to hear from the WAS things that helped you to want to R. So here are a couple of questions that I know would help me in my struggle to fix my M.
1. What was the most important thing your LBS did that made you realize you wanted to work on the R?
2. If you had OP, how long into your relationship did it take for you to see that you rather have LBS?
3. What were some of the signs you showed your LBS that you were wanting to reconnent? Signs before asking to work on the relations.
I know all sitch are different, but it would be nice to hear some possitive things that help saved your marriage so that us LBS can have a piece of hope. Thanks to all, and especially the brave WAS for posting their side so we can ALL learn.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
we're all here to help. i actually appreciate when people come into my threads and ask questions. it a)gives me advice and opinions b)leaves room for other threads (there's so many)
thanks for stopping in !
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
