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My life is a telenovela #1569449 08/25/08 02:55 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Hello all...I have moved over from MLC... Counter filed on my STBX on Monday AUG-18th. He filed in July and just forgot to tell me...whatever... So, found out my STBX had a kid with the OW...so, just had to stop and save myself from this mess...this is very, very, very hard...I have wonderful support network that consists of family, friends, therapists, etc.... So from now on, I will be here... Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1569495 08/25/08 03:54 AM
Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 6,901 MICHIGAN qoe100 Member
qoe100 Member Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 6,901 MICHIGAN	Welllll, I love your thread title!!! Sorry that you're going through this but you'll find great support and good friends here so......welcome to SURVIVING!!!!

Re: My life is a telenovela qoe100 #1569508 08/25/08 04:04 AM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	hey vali sorry you are here but glad to see you again how are things going

Re: My life is a telenovela fig #1569916 08/25/08 05:37 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Fig, sorry I am here too, but hey, that is the way of the world and I am sure I will come out fine... SO many revelations this past summer...i don't know if I can take anymore...LOL! So, I'll be hanging out here for a bit... Hope things are well with you! V Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela qoe100 #1569922 08/25/08 05:39 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	QOE, yeah got some really good friends here...so I am sure I will like it! I hate that my life is a telenovela but one day it will be boring as well...well, maybe NOT boring but this rollercoaster ride will be over and life will be great! Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1570428 08/25/08 11:49 PM
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sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	Hey Vali, sorry to see you hear darlin. Lots of good folks over here, I know you know a lot of them already..... Ian M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Re: My life is a telenovela sofaraway #1570438 08/26/08 12:06 AM
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LL44 Member L Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,643	I haven't been here long, but wanted to welcome you. I am so sorry. The people on here are wonderful.

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1570702 08/26/08 05:03 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal K KarenMarieS Member
KarenMarieS Member K Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal	Quote: STBX on Monday AUG-18th. He filed in July and just forgot to tell me...whatever... So, found out my STBX had a kid with the OW... Wow, just never seizes to amaze me these WA. They seem to forget a lot dont they? I'm sorry for your pain Valentine. also welcome, this is for sure a place to heal and heal you will. Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life

Re: My life is a telenovela sofaraway #1571288 08/26/08 06:42 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Ian, considering the man my STBX has turned out to be...I am NOT sorry I am here... My life will be so much better w/o that piece of trash in my life. I know there are good folks over here...how wonderful! Vali Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela KarenMarieS #1571292 08/26/08 06:45 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Karen, could be that they don't 'forget' seems like they don't wanna be the bad guys/gals...they avoid anything that is remotely taking responsibility regarding their current marriages... They just move forward without finishing up what they started...and they don't learn and they do it over and over and over again...we'll see how long it takes for him to do it to this new girl and his kid. Trust me, a man with his mental capacity, won't be long before the shine wears off and he's off to a new gal. They always seem to do that. Lucky for me, I will be long gone and never have to worry about him again. Yay!!!! Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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