I've posted before about my W's MLC. We are in the final stages of the D and my W has been carrying on an affair for about 6 months that I know.
Today I found out who the OM is and I was slightly shocked. I know this gentleman and NEVER would have suspected my W and this guy. He works in the same company as my W but in an office out of state 1500+ miles away. He is 69 years old, 24 years older than my W.
Incidentally my W's father is also 69 years old and terminally ill. Coincidence?
Me- 47 W- 45 Married 22 years Together 30 years No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat 2005 - 2007 W in MLT 1/08 - Crisis hits 3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA 4/08 W files for divorce 8/08 Divorce final
No coincidence. A replacement for the pending death. A diversion in order to not face reality. So sad.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
