Locked up another one. I feel a little like I am in wonderland. Things keep getting stranger and stranger. She is still full steam ahead with the divorce, but is becoming more friendly and talkative lately.
While your W is living in the fantasy world, how is Woog doing?
Are you coming out of the D ok financially?
How is the parenting plan?
Did the kids ever meet Nick?
As I remember, you mentioned that you had 5 acres that required quite a bit of work to keep if from reverting back to the wilderness. Have you been busy with yard work?
The yard may be a mess, but hopefully after this is over you can hire someone to work on it for you. If blackberries have been taking over, then look on the bright side - those are going to be ripe soon.
I see a bright future for Woog and his kids. Cant say the same for your W after the passion wears off between her and Nick. Somewhere in the future she is going to have huge regrets of what she did to her family. None of that should be your concern now.
Woog, it is funny, but my H has been friendlier lately too. Calls and talks more. He has given me a couple of half-hearted invites to do things w/ him and the Ds. Maybe it is because we are getting on with our lives instead of crying over them.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Well, the stbx is meeting with her lawyer tomorrow. I expect papers will be signed soon. We will see. I am sure the guy will have to have a change or two just to earn his keep. However, she read them already. Has told me she agrees with them and is ready to sign.
I can agree with redhottie, my W has been more friendly lately since I have started GAL. She is also quite jealous.
I hope you can keep a positive attitude with whatever the future may bring. Take care of yourself and your kids. I have not read all your threads, just some of them. You seem like a great guy and great dad.
take care
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Hey Woog...negative john here. The way i feel tonight....i am tempted to say that you are probably better off without her in your life. Sorry amigo...i've been holding back too long. Honestly, what are the chances that our WAWs do another 180 and become the person we thought they were. Most of us have put up with way too much crap and some (that would be me) still are. Comes a time when we have to say so long and good luck. My apologies for not trying to encourage you and for being so blunt ...... I figure we have written and read each other's sitches for about a year now....i would say the same thing to a close friend. Actually i would drop a few F bombs in there for effect. Yenko is bang on...you ARE a great guy AND a great dad....you will find someone who deserves you (maybe you already have).
Any word from your W's lawyer? I am still waiting to hear some sort of proposal from my W's lawyer.
I hope you are getting out on the water this weekend as it is a roaster here in the NW. I dont know how those from Arizona can handle this heat all the time.
