buster I really think you need to just go out and have fun, according to your situation, let your wife go and make her mistakes, but be there if she really needs you for something important. GAL.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
the high road to me sounds like the "I'm better than all of this, I don't deserve what she's putting me through, there is absolutely someone better for me. If I made mistakes and she can't get past them or forgive me, its time to move on" road
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
It's not about thinking you are better, it's about acting better. It's BEING the better person. Not because you are better, or you deserve better, or there's someone out there better. Maybe there isn't!!! Maybe you aren't "better" or haven't been "better."
But ACT better. Be respectful, be kind, be caring of others even if they are SOBs and don't appreciate it. Somewhere in the back of their synapses they are going to think Badcompany truly is a pretty nice guy afterall, even if they don't say it in words or acknowledge it.... and in the long run you will like yourself better, and over time you will be become someone to admire, someone up on that high road. Not because you THINK you should be there, but your actions and words and behaviors put you there.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
