I'm doing ok today. As far as W goes, enh! I kind of feel that when I try to strike up a normal conversation with her I get shut down, but I could be reading more into things than I should. LAst night she was sewing, so I asked what she was working on. Got a one work sort of answer, said something positive back, and that was the end of it. I'm really tired of it!
Is it worth trying to change the medium, maybe? Or asking what she's working on when she's not working on it? Got my second copy of DR earlier today, so I'm full of techniques tonight!
What happened to asking her about the R? Did you manage to find a suitable time at all?
(((((di))))) They do fill up pretty quickly at times! Or get an awful lot of posts!
((((((Lisa)))))) I don't know, I really don't. I feel so disconnected from her. And, for sure, part of that is on me. She seems much more content if I leave her alone, completely.
I haven't asked her anything yet. There are always kids around! Imagine that! It's so easy to see it turning into an attack fest, I really want to avoid that. Ack!
I really feel for you- it must be so hard to deal with it day to day, to keep trying again and again and for her walls to be so thick.
You're so good at thinking up solutions for the rest of us, I know you'll eventually find the right way through this. What would you suggest to me if I was you, and your W was my H? (Imagine!!)
I really feel for you- it must be so hard to deal with it day to day, to keep trying again and again and for her walls to be so thick.
You're so good at thinking up solutions for the rest of us, I know you'll eventually find the right way through this. What would you suggest to me if I was you, and your W was my H? (Imagine!!)
You know, I still wonder...is it easier for those of us who don't see our WAS's every day???
With the current state of affairs, I don't know that I could have your patience Jeff...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
