What a way to start the new year. I am devastated. Just had a mystery call from a woman who is the wife of someone my w. and I know. She confirmed that her husband left her 3 weeks before my w. left me and that they have been having an affair / relationship the entire time. Her H. just introduced my w. to this woman's children today as "his g/f".
I am so shattered. This is my worst fear come true. I don't even know what to say, but I am completely completely gutted.